**Masturbation & Its Deep Strokes**
Fri Feb 12, 2010 14:26
Masturbation & Its Deep Strokes
Masturbation is the way to attain sexual excitement and sensual gratification by a self-done series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen. Also called climax. It can be done by stroking, massaging or touching the penis or clitoris until the peak of sexual excitement is achieved. Vagina stimulation and vibrators and other sex toys are used by some women to masturbate and feel the pleasure of sex.
In today’s life, almost everybody. About 95% of males and 89% of females have masturbated according to a national study report. The vary first short sexual performance experienced by most males and females is none other than masturbation. The young ones can have chances to examine their growing bodies. Masturbation has now seen as a usual behavior. This has been seen even with such people who have sexual relations with a partner and continuity in masturbation even in adulthood and moreover throughout their whole lives is quite common.
Why Do People Masturbate?
As it acts as a self choice for people to enjoy but it could be done for a kind of relief for whole lot of sexual tension also experienced by the ones who don’t have partners and even for those who have partners but the partner is not in a mood to get intimate or not present their for sex. It obviously feels good while masturbating and there’s no tension of getting pregnant or any disease that is transmitted sexually.A sex therapist can even advice an adult to masturbate in presence of sexual dysfunction in an adult so as to experience an orgasm (often in women) or to delay its arrival (often in men).
Is Masturbation Normal?
This question is a bit important to answer. Before the studies declared it normal, it was taken as any abnormal means of obtaining sexual satisfaction, but masturbation now is seen as a normal, healthy sexual action which makes anyone feel good, fulfill a bit of sexual desire and makes no problem. Masturbation is absolutely normal and could be done for lifetime as it makes us observe the pleasure of sex.
The same thing could distress you when it stops you being intimate with a partner, is done frequently and effects your daily life its exactly the same situations when masturbation is becomes a problem.
Is Masturbation Harmful?
For both men and women, masturbation is considered as a harmless and natural way of sexuality and medical community accepts this fact. Its is a complete normal sexual act because no physical injury can be caused by it and a person can do it lifetime. Masturbation is labeled as sinful and even it is being opposed and the same was done by some cultures and religions.
Improvement in sexual health and relationships can be experienced by the person who masturbates that’s suggested by experts. One can investigate their own body through masturbation. Mutual masturbation is used by some partners through which they figure out different skills to make their relationships more satisfying sexually.
What is Over Masturbation?
Its extremely rare as no data is anywhere seen around. The massive no. of masturbation is only found completely healthy and positive with no problems. No considerable amount or number of masturbation is present that is healthy or unhealthy. It could be seen differently by different people both in positive and negative aspects. No daily allowance is recommended by anybody.
If I am over masturbating, will I have to stop masturbating altogether?
No sex therapist or any health care would ever suggest anybody to get a closure on masturbating forever. Masturbation is an important part of a healthy, satisfying sexual life and there is no way to think of stopping it forever if you have to stop it for a week or two. A break from masturbation could be taken if masturbation seems to be becoming a problem for you and you would take a break so as to figure it out. None should ever have any thought of getting masturbation out of their lives and their sexual desires. Don’t go on others advice when you encounter such people who try to seed a thought in your minds that masturbating is wrong or you need to stop it. The thing they say is absolutely wrong and its there way and state of curiosity, not yours.
Feeling guilty about masturbation is not necessarily a sign of over masturbating.
Another important question that’s must to be answered. There is no need of guilt when it comes to masturbation because it is all together a healthy for your sexual life. The other questions down under must be read so as to fetch out about the guilty that someone experiences about masturbation which eventually has no meaning regarding doing masturbation too much. These answers are not meant to tell anybody to stop masturbating. It might be your choice if you want to take a break to work things out. The whole answer is about how to deal with your feelings of guilt, to understand that no importance should be given to guilty, and to let you all know that it is a way of fetching out the great pleasure given by yourself by masturbation & to get a thing to know that masturbation is a part of sexual health and not a bad thing.
Is your masturbation causing you distress?
If masturbation is making you feel bad and your intuition is encountered with negative messages about it, then it is a sign that you should take a break and give a thought to the problem. Distress never means feeling guilty. The problem is must to figure out about the extent you are masturbating if its causing you distress of any other kind.
Is your masturbation causing (unwanted) physical pain or damage?
If your way of masturbating is making your body feel any kind of pain or damage, then there is a possibility that you experiencing over masturbating, or even you are not doing it in a right way. There must be an easy answer of such problem and that answer could be fetched out just by yourself by taking a sufficient break.
Is your masturbation getting in the way of your life in unwanted ways?
If you are masturbating at frequent intervals and you are unable to work in time and look after your family and all then there could be only one answer that you are over masturbating. Doing it in mean time when you are done with your important works that comes first in life than masturbating, then its considered good. And doing it once day in right time is absolutely healthy and good but you are doing masturbation at the times of your work and its effecting your work, then you might think about the solution about what’s going on. It can lead to over masturbating if you are making your work affected continuously by yourself by masturbating at the important times.
Do you find yourself literally unable to stop masturbating?
There is nothing about masturbating that could harm anybody or something. That’s just far apart but when it seems to you like you are leading masturbating and unable to stop doing it, then it means that you are over masturbating, then you must fetch out some different ways and supports (family, friends, professionals) to get out of such web.
I hope you all got the answers of such questions that were going on in your minds earlier the topic “MASTURBATING”
February 12, 2010
Fri Feb 12, 2010 22:51
WTF emu obviously u have faaaar to much time on ure hands!!or summet else on em??%$^lol
:oD LOL! EMU you are really taking the posts to the next level bro!
I mean, you are sharing your interest in this subject with others, that is really....weird, lol.
Ok, everything aside the post is good, everything is here that somebody would like to know so yeah, it's done right. Thanks for the post!;o)
Sun Feb 14, 2010 06:47
Thnx 4 d replies m8z..
~ET..a place to b~
Sun Feb 14, 2010 09:00
doesnt mention wankers cramp ...not that i have experienced that lol
Mon Feb 15, 2010 06:53
geordie....let us knw about that wankers cramp...? hmm?
Got a good laugh and read out of that!
I think Derek and Clive summed it up pretty good
"Well i thought it would take 5 minutes to brew (Tea)"
"So i thought i would have a 4½ Minute Wank!!"
"Why not, why not it's a free F**king country" he he
Fri Feb 26, 2010 23:44
That is why i mastered the art of 1 handed typing.
Sat Feb 27, 2010 04:50